Dear Bartender: I’m a single gay man, reasonably devoted to going to gym to keep in shape so I might be able to attract prey… but I can’t seem to stop eating a shitty diet. Result is decent arms/chest but still unattractive midsection. Love handles and spare tire just won’t go away. How can a man motivate his diet as much as his gym routine so he isn’t a chronic, pathetic fat-ass loser?
Dear Fat-Ass: There is a well-worn path to better self-esteem for guys like you, but it takes time, and you gotta be willing to put in the hours.
Get old. You’ll be amazed how much better you’ll feel when you see how fat your friends are.